I have always believed that the Whole Food, Plant-Based (WFPB) lifestyle is a journey full of obstacles. Choices abound, right or wrong, compliant or non-compliant, and what do you do when the world is turned upside-down? In full transparency, I fell off the wagon. I’m …
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I was on the Facebook page for the Forks Over Knives
community. If you haven’t joined the
group, I highly recommend you do so. As
you embark on this lifestyle journey, the page is full of motivating stories, moral
support, and encouragement from the group as we experience our individual
challenges.
Recently, someone on the Facebook page asked if the Whole
Food, Plant-Based diet contributes to depression (or feeling depressed). The question really caught my attention. I wanted to comment on the page but decided
against doing so as my response could not properly address the question. Rather than a quick generic comment, I decided
I would address it on my blog.
Let me start by saying, I am not a medical doctor, psychologist, therapist, or anything of the sort. Depression is a real and debilitating condition that deserves proper diagnosis, acknowledgement, and treatment. This blog post is not a substitute for addressing any form of depression related disorders. This is not meant to be medical advice and should not be construed as such.
What struck me about the question on the Facebook page was that
I could relate. I was feeling down and
blue. I really had no reason to be. My health was good and improving each day. My marriage and family life were (and are) in
a really good place. I enjoy my job. There was no logical reason for me to be
feeling down.
What changed? I (re)adopted
a Whole Food, Plant-Based lifestyle on January 1, 2019. Two and a half months
later, I’m feeling dejected and gloomy.
Can the two really be connected?
Without the benefit of research or studies, I started to
look inwards. What was going on?
Like many of us, with the New Year came new changes and
goals. My New Year resolutions were made
and the energy out of the gate was tremendous.
Sticking to the resolutions gave me a sense of accomplishment. But like every year before this one, it was just
a matter of time before that energy subsided and I lost the motivation that was
fueling me. Other than maintaining my
WFPB lifestyle, was I down because my resolutions were abandoned, and I was
feeling a sense of failure as a person?
Winter seemed to drag on this year. The air was cold, the skies were grey and
dreary, and the daytime was short. In those
conditions, I really didn’t want to leave the house and brave the elements. Maybe the four walls inside the house were
closing in on me and I was going a little stir crazy. I was stuck in the same routine. Was this boredom manifesting itself as gloom?
Or could it actually be the food? Was it the WFPB diet causing these feelings?
So, let me share with you my thoughts and some simple
actions I took that helped me get out of the dumps and into a more positive
mindset.
,First, as it got warmer, I tried to take advantage of the fresh air. I took longer walks with the dogs. I spent a morning walking through a flower garden and taking time to notice the rejuvenation that comes in Spring. I took quiet moments to watch and listen to the birds. Spring, to me, seems like the more natural time to “start” the year. It is all about fresh growth and possibility. January is when you are in hibernation and preservation mode. I took this fresh start to the year as an opportunity to think of the possibilities for me and what I wanted. My enthusiasm was renewed, mirroring Spring’s renewal.
Second, I allocated part of my day to pursue my interests. I recently took up photography as a hobby. As I had so much to learn about photography and its nuances, I committed to doing something daily to help me grow and develop the skills necessary. That could be taking pictures, understanding the settings on my camera, or editing pictures on the computer. Even if I only had 15 minutes a day to work on my hobby, I definitely felt as though I was growing and developing as a photographer. Learning new skills is incredibly uplifting, be it a hobby, learning a new language, or learning the art of minimalism (these are the three areas I hope to develop personally). Enjoy the process of learning and growing.
Third, I tried to put myself in my happy place even when I
could not physically be there. My happy
place is with my family and by the ocean, and especially by the ocean with my
family. I pulled up photos from our
trips last year. I watched video clips I
recorded. I reviewed our agendas. I reflected on how I felt with the sun
kissing my cheeks, surrounded by the ones I love. I lost myself in thought as to where to go in
2019 to experience the same. It may
sound cheesy, but I promise you, it works.
I put together pictures from 2018 and had a book made for my wife. I spent twenty or more hours selecting and
editing the pictures included in the book, but the happiness and warmth I felt working
on this project brought me back to my happy place. What is your happy place? Try getting there even when you can’t
physically be there.
And lastly, food. During
the winter, I did find myself reaching for comfort foods and something
warm. Oatmeal, sweet and regular
potatoes, whole wheat pasta, and beans were the staples. Though I tried to use my imagination in how I
prepared everything, the meals matched the weather…dreary. I needed more freshness. I needed more fresh fruits and vegetables. I needed more cool and cold dishes rather
than hot dishes. I needed to consume the
foods I equate to Spring and Summer. I started
eating avocado toast for breakfast. I
started eating more bananas, pineapples, and berries. I took the time and prepared chopped salads
with greens, cucumbers, celery, radish, carrots, zucchini, red onion, bell peppers
of every color, and cherry tomatoes, dressed with a shallot and red wine
dressing. Add some olives, chick peas,
and artichoke hearts to add more textures and substance to the chopped
salad. I did find that my mood improved
with the change I made to fresher foods.
Did my blues and gloom go away because of the food? Maybe.
Was it because of the other actions I took in my daily
habits? More likely.
Or was it a combination of all the above? Absolutely!
I hope my approach and advice helps you should you find
yourself down and blue while adopting this lifestyle. Don’t let the gloom pull you away from making
the changes you desire without trying some small changes that are very easy to implement. In my opinion, it is highly unlikely that a
Whole Food, Plant-Based lifestyle will cause depression.
If your feelings of depression persist or get stronger,
please seek help. You do not need to go
it alone.
I am interested in your comments and feedback. What are some of the strategies you use to
pull yourself up when you are feeling down?
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One comment I hear repeatedly when I talk about living a
whole food plant based (WFPB) life is “I could never do that, it would be too
hard.”
I typically respond with “Why do you think that?”
Then I will get a litany of responses like, “I need
protein”, “I could never get my family to do it”, or “We like to go out to
dinner.” But my favorite reason is, “It
would cost too much.”
I could go on and on with the responses, but in reality, it
is likely that the timing isn’t right for them to adopt the lifestyle. Like anything in life, you can accomplish
anything you decide to do (within physical possibilities…I will never be an NBA
center no matter how hard I try). For
some people, that day may never come.
For others, it may be a health scare.
For me, it is a desire to better my wellbeing and longevity (quality as
well as quantity of my years).
Note, I am not referring to the responses as excuses. Excuses is overly strong, judgmental, and not
what I believe is going on here. I think
the responses are a process of gathering information, processing and filtering
the information, and then filing this for future reference.
So, let me debunk some of the responses I receive.
“I need protein” – Yes, you do. We all do.
But you are likely over-estimating how much protein you need in a
day. You are also likely
under-estimating the amount of protein in non-meat, non-egg, and non-dairy
sources. You would be surprised in how
much protein is in broccoli, beans, and seeds and nuts. You really only need 30 to 40 grams of
protein a day and that can easily be attained on a WFPB diet. Look at a gorilla and tell this giant,
muscular creature he needs to get his protein from non-plant sources.
“I could never get my family to do it” – I hear
you, I can’t get mine to do it either.
But it doesn’t stop me. I do all
the cooking in the house. It would be so
much easier for me to prepare one meal that we all enjoy, but that isn’t what happens. I still cook what they want. I plan and prep my meals accordingly. When we eat, we all sit at the table. They eat what I’ve made for them and I eat
what I made for myself. Yes, it is a
hassle. But it is what I must do to live
my life in accordance to my values.
“We like to go out to dinner” – There are a lot
of reasons people like to go out to dinner.
Convenience, social interaction, and variety of options to name a
few. I would be lying if I told you that
being WFPB is easy when dining out, but it isn’t. It is downright challenging at some
restaurants (IHOP could not recommend anything other than seasonal fruit). But here is an opportunity to discover new
restaurants in your area. I have also
found that when I ask about vegan (very few people will know what whole food plant-based
means…but we are changing that!) options, the chef will prepare compliant food
“off-menu” and I think they enjoy the challenge as it is an escape from the
normal day-to-day. If all else fails,
maybe you will start cooking more and eating at home, which is always the more
economical solution. Which brings me to…
“It costs too much” – This is my real head scratcher. Potatoes, beans, rice, whole wheat pastas,
grains, fruits and vegetables, seeds and nuts, and other WFPB compliant foods
are almost always cheaper than meat and cheeses. These foods are generally more
nutrient-dense, equally as filling, and have fewer negative side-effects. I’ll be honest, the worst side-effect from a
WFPB diet in my experience is passing gas and even that subsides with
time. The $15 I spend at the market to
buy a skirt steak for dinner feeds three people ($5 per serving without
considering sides or salad). I can make
a “Chipotle” style burrito bowl with brown rice and beans as the foundation for
less that $1 per serving. With all the
non-dairy fixings (tomatoes, peppers, onions, salsa, lettuce, hot sauce, etc.),
I can make an entire meal for a family of four for under $10 (or $2.50 per
serving). With planning and preparation,
you will find a WFPB lifestyle is far more economical than any other diet or
lifestyle…even more economical than living off the dollar value menus at fast
food restaurants.
I will leave you with this…
Going all the way back to the time I attended Weight Watchers while in elementary school, I have tracked or been concerned about calories. Other diets had me tracking the macros…protein, carbs, and fats. Whether measured in grams or percentages, I spent my life trying to follow a lifestyle that required a lot of work. A lot of conscious effort to record and track everything I put in my mouth. The guilt and shame that followed if I had too much carbs or not enough protein or too many or too few calories. It was INSANE!
My life today? I
don’t track calories, fat, carbs, protein, or anything else! As long as I do not eat any animal products
or heavily processed foods, I eat as much as I want, when I want. If I am hungry, I eat. I am putting good stuff into my body until I
am full and my body is rewarding me.
I promise you, anyone can live this lifestyle. It is simple and easy to follow. Yes, it takes a degree of discipline at the
beginning, but you can do it.
I would love to read about your experiences adopting this
lifestyle.
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It was Christmas 2017 and my Christmas gifts were all Keto related
cookbooks. I was convinced Keto was my
passage to a healthy life and washboard abs.
It was the craze and may still be.
But then a friend of mine expressed his concern.
This friend is very well read on diet, nutrition, and
exercise. He warned me about the impact
of Keto on my heart health. I was 52
with total cholesterol of 290 and blood pressure of 146/110. He asked me if I fully researched the impact
of Keto on my heart health. Honestly, it
was something I paid attention to, but when you are wanting to do something,
you search for anything that supports what you want to hear.
The common theme I heard was that cholesterol numbers were
misleading. Studies seemed to support
that in defense of Keto. This was
contrary to everything I had heard for years.
He suggested I watch Forks over Knives and What the Health
on Netflix. Two documentaries that
challenged the Standard American Diet (SAD) and offered a solution to obesity
and chronic diseases. It was not pills
and medication. It was not fat and
protein from animals. It was a Whole
Food Plant Based (WFPB) diet.
Vegan? Me? My skirt steak was legendary. My brisket had smoke rings that would remind
you of counting the life of a freshly cut tree, not to mention the burnt
ends. My Korean Spare Ribs could not be
more tender. I was probably the last
person you would expect to adopt a WFPB life.
But my friend’s concern and what I watched in the
documentaries made more sense to me than the “science” behind Keto. I looked at it this way…this lifestyle would
not hurt me and can only help. Before
doing Keto, I decided to give this WFPB thing a try.
I had one last hoorah! Dinner at Texas de Brazil where the leg of lamb and garlic sirloin was consumed in quantities that should have caused a heart attack! I finished that meal and went cold turkey. This was February 19, 2018. I adopted a Whole Food Plant Based lifestyle.
My weight at that time was nearing 200 pounds. In fact, when the scale hit 200 I jumped
off. So I will admit to 199 lbs. but not
an ounce more.
I had a physical exam with my doctor in mid-March. He has tried to prescribe Crestor or some
other cholesterol lowering medication for the last six years. I refused to fill the prescriptions that he
called in to the pharmacist, convinced I could do it on my own with diet and
exercise. My weight had dropped to about
188 at the time of the physical. But
what shocked me after four weeks on the WFPB lifestyle were my cholesterol
number (it had dropped to 211) and my blood pressure (118/80). Could this be a fluke?
Well my doctor feared it may have been a fluke and asked me
to return in sixty days for another blood test.
So, at the end of June I returned.
After ninety days of a Whole Food Plant Based life, my cholesterol
number was 171 and my blood pressure was 110/70. I was elated and felt so empowered and in
control of my life and my health. As I
neared my 53rd birthday, I was 162 pounds (a loss of at least 37
lbs.), felt much younger than I had in years, and told anybody who would listen
to me that I found the Fountain of Youth!
And I went on to live happily ever-after…
Ok, it didn’t quite work out that way.
My wife and I went to an all-inclusive in Mexico at the end
of July and I indulged in what I paid for.
All you can eat and drink…and if filet mignon was on the menu, I ordered
it. Oxtail, seafood, eggs, bacon, steak,
steak, and more steak. I’m not even
mentioning the alcohol that was flowing (into my mouth).
Shortly after was a cruise with my step-kids. Eight days of excess. A cruise is essentially an excuse to eat
yourself silly and I was delirious!
Returning home to college football season had me outside
grilling skirt steak, ribs, and wings.
I had fallen back into my old routine. My weight crept up again, reaching 190 during
the Christmas holiday. My skin was
inflamed and my joints hurt. The energy
levels I enjoyed for the five months while adhering to the WFPB lifestyle was
gone, replaced with a lethargic and flabby being. I was embarrassed and ashamed of my lack of
control and discipline. My health was
taking a turn for the worse and I needed to take control and own my
destiny.
I wanted to be the husband and father my wife, kids, and
step-kids deserved. Healthy, vibrant,
and not a burden physically or mentally.
Plus, I had another very important reason. I will be a grandfather in 2019. I want to be out there throwing or kicking
the ball with my grandchild(ren). I want
to be rough-horsing with them in the ocean.
I want to exemplify health and vibrance that defies my age.
On January 1, 2019 I rededicated and recommitted myself to
the Whole Food Plant Based lifestyle. I
have seen what it offers to my overall health and I want that for myself. And what better way to lead by example and
hold myself accountable than starting a blog on the subject. Put myself out there for the world to see.
So here we are at the beginning of the new year. Two weeks in and so far, so good. Down 6 pounds, but weight isn’t
everything. I’m sleeping better, feel my
skin looks better, and my energy level is improving.
But I know every day presents new challenges. I will discuss my trials and tribulations,
offer tips, share recipes, review products, and just be real with you. I’ll be honest and open with you. That is my promise to my community. At the end of the day, this blog is about you. You stay and read my posts not because of me,
but because I am serving you by providing information and hope that will help
you and your quest.
My commitment is to post twice a week, scheduled for
Wednesday and Sunday. If there is a
subject you would like me to address, please comment below. I will make every effort to respond to each
comment and where I can, incorporate your questions into my blog.